Monday, April 23, 2012

The Importance of Accessories

Everybody wants to dress better, but few know how to go about it. Its not about going shopping more often, (though that would help!) and its definitely not about having more clothes. Its all about the accessories. Accessories dress up an outfit and can make a world of difference to your look. You could wear the simplest of clothes and yet look like a million bucks. All it takes is a little planning. In this article we focus on bags and shoes.

Don't shop randomly

When you shop randomly, you end up spending more money without coming out any more stylish than you were. You come home with more, not better than what you had. Unless you have pots of money, you need to organize your shopping if you want to add some serious style without breaking the bank.

Don't wear worn-out accessories

Just as the first step to assembling a good wardrobe is to stock up on basics, it is the same with accessories. If you don't already have a jacket, the first one you own shouldn't be banana yellow. Similarly, for formal wear, make sure you have a black leather belt, black shoes and a black bag. If your leather bag or belt has started peeling or otherwise coming apart, its time to get new ones. Don't carry them assuming your outfit is a killer so no one will notice the chipped leather on your bag. A worn out bag can make the snazziest outfit look shabby. So no, you do not need another top, you need another belt, or you need another bag. You could however designate a well-worn bag to casual status, and wear it during the day with jeans (not trousers).

Prioritise

Spend some time in front of your wardrobe and make a list of what you need. Do you have shoes that match, or do you wear everything with black shoes? If so, then let your first shopping item be a new pair of shoes instead of another top. If you have quite a few light blue shirts and light blue jeans, pick up a pair of reasonable light blue low-heeled sandals that you can wear casually or formally.

Buy a bag to match your shoes

So what's next on your list after blue shoes? Green shoes? Wrong answer. A blue bag that matches your shoes to perfection. You don't have to buy the bag immediately, but just make sure its next on your list, and avoid buying anything not on that list unless you need it. You can now wear your blue shoes and blue bag with contrasting coloured clothes as well, not just with blue.

Similarly, if you have a pair of red, green or orange funky shoes sitting at home, then the first item on your shopping list could be a red, green or orange bag. Don't forget to carry the shoes when you, so you can purchase the exact coloured bag.

Remember

The bottom line is, instead of thinking Let me buy that black bag, it will go with all my clothes, think ..Let me buy that black t-shirt, it will go with all my bags. We all know that only a few colours suit us, and by now we know what those colours are. Stick to those colours, and experiment with bags. And if you plan your shopping, this will not work out to be an expensive option. Remember, don't shop for accessories to match your clothes, shop for clothes to match your accessories, and you'll come out looking far more stylish.

Why should the wedding ring be worn on the fourth finger

There is a beautiful and convincing explanation given by the Chinese.....

Thumb represents your Parents
Second (Index) finger represents your Siblings
Middle finger represents your-Self
Fourth (Ring) finger represents your Life Partner
& the Last (Little) finger represents your children

Firstly, open your palms (face to face),and keep as if

praying only bend the middle fingers and hold them together -

(back to back)

Secondly, Hold the remaining three

fingers and the thumb - (tip to tip).


Now, try to separate your thumbs (representing the parents)..., they will open, because your parents are not destined to live with you lifelong, and have to leave you sooner or later. Please join your thumbs as before and separate your Index fingers (representing siblings)...., they will also open, because your brothers and sisters will have their own families and will have to lead their own separate lives. Now join the Index fingers and separate your Little fingers (representing your children)...., they will open too, because the children also will get married and settle down on their own some day.

Finally, join your Little fingers, and try to separate your Ring fingers
(representing your spouse).

You will be surprised to see that you just CANNOT.....,

because Husband & Wife have to remain together all their lives - through thick and thin!!

Please try this out......... ISN'T THIS A LOVELY THEORY?